Homeschooling: Real Time Experience

I came across a website called eNotes and a discussion was going on about:  Homeschooling: Are you for it or against it? Why?


I suppose we all have had the privilege of reading the comments below and they are especially fantastic when they come from public school teachers and administrators.  I do have an issue when the only debate for NOT homeschooling is socialization.


Some of the comments were

I have known home schooled children who excelled socially, but they were involved in church groups and club sports which helped them with socialization.  I have also known home schooled students who were practically shut off from the rest of the world, and they have struggled mightily to adapt to the real world.

I am neither for it nor against it.  I have chosen not to homeschool my children because I think they (especially the older) need to socialize in a way that would be hard to provide in a home school setting.  In that sense, then, I am against it.

Homeschooling - properly done- is one of the most effective educational programs. It has produced scientists, philosophers, and teachers with amazing stories to tell the world. However, homeschooling is all about organization, detail, consistency, and ongoing data collection. This is not for typical lazy and whiny parent that us teachers encounter at least twice every year of our career. This is work cut for a champ. I basically completed my doctorate in education and there is no way I would home-school my child.Why? Because I canNOT do it However, if I were organized, patient, and less critical of my own kid I would definitely do it. 100% for sure     ---this coming FROM a teacher?

Too often children who are homeschooled not only are denied the opportunity to develop social skills, they often develop a false sense of superiority because the parent--who generally is not an educator-- has instilled in the child how "special" he/she is. More often than not, home schooling is a tragic mistake which ultimately will negatively impact the child's emotional and intellectual development.

Needless-to-say, it goes on. 


I had to write my reply:


As a homeschool teacher/mother....a lot of your statements misrepresent what homeschooling is about.

Homeschooling is

1. a relationship - family, sibling to sibling, extended family, friends

(debunk for "socialization")

2. a personal, imitate curriculum/education - the curriculum is tailor-made to the student (not to the teacher)

Our curriculum for next year:

http://motherofaction.blogspot.com/2012/04/our-homeschool-curriculum-for-2012-2013.html

3. Freedom in learning - like someone mentioned above, homeschooling is a great eduation when done right. Are there bad homeschool teachers?? Yes. Are there bad public school teachers? Yes. Actually more since the ratio is greater.

4. Accountability - parent(s) who decide to homeschool their children are making a decision to be accountable for their education... it's not lightly taken or made.

(It does take some organizational skills) --- but patience and critical comments? Talking to #7 --- Not all homeschool teachers are GIFTED with patience. Frankly, I would think a public school teacher would NEED more PATIENCE, ORGANIZATION to teach 20-30 kids who are NOT their own children.

5. Socialization is such a medieval word these days to homechool teachers.

Where to get socialization:

a. siblings

b. parents

c. friends (yes, homeschool kids have friends)

d. co-ops

e. church activities

f. homeschool organized sports (yes, they can compete in organized sports -even in Texas)

g. ministries - we have been going to a NURSING HOME ministry every week

f. camps

Shall I go on??

6. Education of the homeschool parent - Now, I get a little perturbed when teachers (of any kind) say a homeschool teacher cannot teach without a degree.
(Bollocks)

If you research (just a tad) you'd find that a parent who homeschooled their children (not a fluke homeschool teacher) and the teacher had a High School diploma only compared to a homeschool teacher with a higher education -- the homeschool student did just AS WELL (maybe a few points under) as the homeschool teacher with a degree did with their student(s). AND, AND far better than their counterparts in a public school setting.

a. Homeschool Scores vs Public School Test Scores:http://suite101.com/article/homeschool-test-scores-vs-public-school-test-scores-a373750

b. Homeschool Advantage:http://www.nheri.org/research/nheri-news/careful-study-finds-homeschool-advantage.html

You can go on and research and you'll always find that homeschooling is more productive for any student 
who has parents who are serious about their children's education.

(So, no. A homeschool parent/teacher does not need a Doctorate in Education to teach.)

7. As for being less socially immature -- I am going out on a limb and say that you mean he or she is NOT in tune with what the world is doing/teaching. Actually, as a homeschool parent this is a KEY reason to homeschool.

(Didn't you hear about the 10 boys in English class watching Porn & masterbating WHILE IN CLASS?? ---was that teacher teaching and/or keeping the environment safe for others?) Sadly this might be an extreme example, but lets face it ---it's not far behind elsewhere in a public school setting.

8. Colleges and Universities are WAKING up and actually looking for and recruiting homeschoolers. They just are that MORE prepared for college.

Homeschoolers EXCEL in College:

http://www.hslda.org/docs/nche/000000/00000017.asp

Finally, as a homeschool mom/teacher....

It's my right as a parent to decide what kind of education my sons will receive. I just wish more parents understood that...yet, they are lied into thinking there is nothing better out there. Personally, I think ALL parents know that's what is best for their own children, but homeschooling is WORK, SWEAT, and a HUGE COMMITMENT.

And they want none of it.




I am not sure if it's right to respond to a teacher's forum, but in this case, sometimes a little of real time experience is necessary for discussion.  

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Homeschool Curriculum Choice for 2012-2013

I finally caught the curriculum bug and sat down last night to figured out all my sons, course of studies. I only do a COS so that I can have a hard copy list of what we "want" and what we "need/have." I have finished their curriculum list for next SY 2012-2013. Want to see our list?? I even stayed up late to research cost per website to see what was cheaper...so now, everything is listed, ordered, and waiting for shipment! I bought from RainbowResource.com and CBD.com.

Here's what I got-

I will be teaching at our Co-Op for:  World Geography, (A Beka) & Photography.


9th grade:

Bible -
Answers in Genesis – Answers Books 1-3 and DVD’s
Omnibus III - Theology

English/Language -
Blue book of Grammar
Various Selections from Omnibus III (Literature)
Bible passages for recitation and memory verses
Vocabulary from reading list

Science -
Apologia with Biology, 2nd ed. (With Lab)
(Co-Op)

History -
Omnibus III by Veritas Press (Reformation to Present, English/British Lit)
World Geography  (Co-Op)

Math -
Beginner’s Algebra with Companion by Life of Fred

Foreign Language -
First Form Latin (since we've not completed this course) or start with Rosetta Stone: Latin

Electives -

Photography Club (Co-Op)
Bible Club (Co-Op)
Nature Study

P.E.  -

Swimming
F.E.A.S.T  Soccer

6th Grade: 

Bible: -
Answers in Genesis - Answer Books 1-3 and DVD's

A Beka -
Full Curriculum

Apologia- Zoology 3: Land Animals (Co-Op)
Texas History (Co-Op)
Bible Club (Co-Op)
Nature Study

Foreign Language -
First Form Latin

P.E. -

Swimming


1st Grade: 

Bible -
Answers in Genesis – Answers Books for Kids and  DVD’s
Children’s Bible: ultimate sticker book collection

English -
Teach your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons,
Sight word flashcards (Hooked on Phonics), etc.
A Beka beginner books and Handwriting without Tears (penmanship)
Read aloud books: various, library  and personal books

Science - 
Apologia- Zoology 3: Land Animals (Co-Op)
Ocean Life: Children’s Ocean Life Encyclopedia (own)
Nature Study: Comstock and Nature Walks Various Library Books

Social Studies -
Elem. History Projects (Co-Op)
My World: Adventures in Time and Place (free from free-cycle) and Geography Atlas (free)

Math- 
Mathematics: the Path to Math Success and Collaborative Math Books (from friend)

Foreign Language -
Spanish (Co-Op)

P.E. -

Swimming

Pre-K:

Various Hands-On Activities and Books
Starfall.com


Momma Helps -

1. DonnaYoung.org  (for COS template, Planners, Co-Op schedules)
2. Well-Planned Day Planner (SY 2012-2013)
3. Bible
4. Prayer
5. Husband

*Not necessarily in that order. ;)


Thanks for stopping by and Happy Homeschooling!!

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